The Romantic Husband

  Tips for Changing Your Spouse Marriage has taught me it's a journey, not a destination. When I said "I do," I imagined I'd found my perfect match — and yet over time I've learned that marriage is a dynamic process that requires ongoing attention, work, and a willingness to adapt. As my partner and I moved through the ups and downs of married life, I often wondered how to gently nudge my partner in healthier directions without pushing them away. I love my partner for who they are, but I also want both of us to grow and evolve together — and I’ve found that the most reliable path to that growth is through changing what I do and how I react, not trying to force them to change overnight. Finding the right balance between acceptance and gentle influence has been crucial for a healthy, fulfilling relationship . In this article I share practical relationship tips and real-life lessons I learned the hard way — communication tactics, small behavioral nudges that actua...

  Welcome to The Romantic Husband If you’ve ever wondered what real-life romance looks like after decades of marriage, or what a long-married husband and romance author has learned about love, you’re in the right place. If you’re looking for practical marriage advice rooted in lived experience—tips you can try this week—stay a while. My name is  Gary M. Roberts , and I created  The Romantic Husband  to share the stories, insights, and lessons I’ve gathered from a life lived fully—as an  award-winning author ,  retired Chief of Police ,  Doctor of Theology ,...