The Romantic Husband

I’ve reached a point in marriage where two things keep the romance alive far better than candlelit dinners or long walks on the beach: butt pats and pet names . Yes, really. Forget diamonds — give me a well-timed booty smack and someone calling me “Honey Muffin,” and I feel fully cherished. Let me explain. The Drive-By Butt Pat: An Art Form There is a sacred marital ritual I like to call the drive-by butt pat . You know the one — you’re walking past your spouse on your way to the kitchen, the couch, or anywhere snacks might be found, and suddenly WHAP : gentle, supportive, affectionate contact. Now, some might call it juvenile. I call it emotional enrichment. A butt pat says: “Hey, I like you.” “Still cute.” “Nice pants.” “Just checking this is still mine.” It’s marital Morse code. Sometimes the pat is a playful tap. Sometimes it’s more of a soft squeeze that says, “Hello, yes, I am your legally bonded partner, and I appreciate your structural i...

Romance doesn’t have to come with a three-digit price tag. Trust me—I adore my spouse, but I also love keeping money in my bank account. Over the years, we’ve mastered the art of the low-cost date night . These dates may not involve fancy reservations or waiters saying “excellent choice,” but they do involve laughter, connection, and sometimes competitive trash talk. Here are some of our favorite budget-friendly date nights that prove love doesn’t require a luxury budget—just a good sense of humor. 1. The “Gourmet” Stay-At-Home Dinner Date We light candles like we’re starring in a rom-com, then proceed to cook something that would definitely not impress Gordon Ramsay. Sometimes it’s homemade pizza, sometimes it’s breakfast for dinner. Either way, we pretend we’re judges on a cooking show while dramatically critiquing each other’s presentations. “Bold use of cheese.” “Thank you, I was feeling reckless.” Total cost: whatever was already sitting in our fridge. Bonus ...

  Turns out you don’t need a luxury retreat or a relationship guru to fix communication issues. Sometimes, all it takes is one simple habit — practiced consistently — and a good sense of humor. Recognizing When Something’s Off in Your Marriage When Everyday Arguments Become Competitions   Every relationship has its bumps, but ours started feeling like we were training for the Arguing Olympics. If the tiniest things — like laundry, the thermostat, or the dreaded remote control — turn into major disagreements, your marriage might be waving a tiny emotional white flag.   The Great Dinner Duel: Our Wake-Up Call Most couples argue about who has to cook — not us. We argue about who gets to cook. Passionately. Somewhere between a whisk and a passive-aggressive comment, I realized: We weren’t fighting about dinner. We were stuck in recycled communication patterns. And boom — a lightbulb moment, courtesy of pasta night. My Big Issue: Life-lo...

  Biblical Wedding Traditions and Their Meanings We Still Use Today By Gary M. Roberts Weddings are among the oldest human traditions, and some of the practices we cherish most today go back thousands of years—to ancient Israel, to biblical customs, and to the spiritual symbolism woven throughout Scripture. Though modern ceremonies may appear quite different on the surface, many of the elements we consider “traditional” have deep roots in biblical times. These traditions carry profound meaning, connecting couples not only to history but also to divine principles about love, covenant, and community. In this comprehensive exploration, we’ll trace several beloved wedding customs back to their biblical origins. We’ll look at how these traditions developed, what they symbolized then, and how their meanings continue to enrich our ceremonies today. For an even deeper dive into the symbolism behind these traditions, you can explore my booklet, Wedding Traditions and Their Meanings , avail...